BE CLEAR WHY YOU’RE HERE

I believe each of us is born with a life purpose. Identifing, acknowledging, and honoring this purpose is perhaps the most important action successful people take. They take time to understand what they’re here to do-and then they pursue that with passion and enthusiasm.

Without purpose as the compass to guide you, your goals and action plans may not ultimately fulfill you. You don’t want to get to the top of the ladder only to find out you had it up against the wall. Meaning, don’t spend a life time doing something you don’t love doing.

You were born with an inner guidance system that tells you when you are on or off purpose by the amount of joy you are experiencing. The things that brings you the greatest joy are alignment with your purpose. To begin to home in on your purpose, make a list of the times you have felt the most joyful and alive. What are the common elements of these experiences? Can you figure out away to make aliving doing these things?

As you move forward to define your vision for your life and your goals, make sure they are aligned with and serve to fulfill your purpose. That includes the people you allow in your life. If they are not aligned with your purpose then they must be cut out.

“Learn to get in touch with the silence within yourself and know that everything in life has a purpose.”

                                                              ELISABETH KUBLER-ROSS,M.D.

                                                   Psychiatrist and author of the classic On Death and Dying

 

• Ladies forget about chasing a so called "SHOT CALLER" and try to attract a MAN who "CALLS ON GOD" for guidance..


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• Too many women have fallen for "boys" disguised as "men," when in fact the signs were there right from the beginning that he was just a BOY.


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• It's crazy how some women view "GOOD MEN" as friendship material and "WANNA BE THUGS" as marriage material.


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• A superficial woman thinks that a dude who possesses Money, Clothes, Cars and Status equates to him being a "GOOD MAN.."


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• Sadly, Some woman have SUPERFICIAL standards that are so high that not even Jesus can live up to them... SMH


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• How you gonna INSIST that your future mate MUST have a "Gold Card" or a "Black Card," when all you have is an "EBT Card."


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• Equally important, Don't act and dress like a whore and expect to be approached like you're a PRINCESS.


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• A pretty face is nothing if you have an ugly heart.


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• There's nothing more sexier than a woman who is Intelligent, Wholesome, Discreet, Modest, Pure Hearted, Responsible, Humble and God Fearing.


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• Nothing is more beautiful than a down to earth lady who doesn't pretend to be something she’s not and who doesn't let a man define who she is.


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• "Ladies, don't be easy, be WORTH IT... If they really want you, they will accept the challenge." - Iceberg Slim


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• A woman who is worth it will never be easy to get. And a Real Man will acknowledge her worth and always be patient.


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• Everyone you meet comes with LUGGAGE.. Just find someone who loves you enough to help you UNPACK..


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• "And To The Young Ladies: Keep Your Head Up, Legs Closed and Eyes Open" - Tupac Shakur


Ladies: Boys play with your mind. Men Explore it. Boys drop names.. Men drop KNOWLEDGE.. Boys Flaunt their "Wealth.." Men Flaunt their VISION. Boys live for now. Men Plan ahead. Boys seek Popularity, Men Demand RESPECT And Know How To Give It!... Boys play House, MEN BUILD HOMES. Boys Shack Up, MEN GET MARRIED.. Boys make babies and disappear. Men raise children and teach them to persevere. Boys Like To Spend Time With Their Boys. Men appreciate the time they spend with their family. Boys lay blame on others. Men admit their faults and own up to them. Boys Make Excuses And Hesitate. Men Make Plans And Activate. Boys make decisions blindly. Men weigh their options and calculate their movements. Boys lack self control and operate in haste. Men possess faith and exercise patience. Boys manipulate, steal and take from the community. Real Men respect, love and give back to the community. Boys throw up their hands and flee from their problems. Men roll up their sleeves, stick out their chest and handle their problems. Boys are easily distracted. Men usually stay focused. Boys do what they want to do. Men do what they have to do. Boys base their strength on the "Power" of money. Men base their strength on their faith in God. Boys are more concerned with the fullness of their reputation. Men are more concerned with the depth of their character. Boys can't control their emotions and are quick to fight. Real men have the fortitude and inner strength to walk away from an argument or minor altercation before it escalates into violence. Boys are full of drama. Real Men AVOID DRAMA, not because they can't handle it, but because they just don't have time for the BULLSH*T. BOYS equate "Self Worth" with "Net worth" and their self esteem fluctuates with the balance of their bank accounts. Real Men know The Road to Victory and Success is paved with humble submission to the Most High! A Man has the COURAGE to stand alone. A boy needs his crew to validate him. REAL MEN make sacrifices for their dreams without bargaining their soul. Boys will sell their soul and their dignity for ill gotten riches. Real Men are LEGACY DRIVEN. A legacy is something you leave behind that will benefit others-perhaps those yet unborn. Real Men understand that It's not what you accept but it's what you turn down that shows character.. Real Men practice due diligence and humility to ensure that their lives and the lives of their family will be prosperous and purposeful. Real men have class and are not ashamed to hold open a door for a lady, pull out a chair for lady or remove his hat when he enters her home. A dude with a "Boy's" mentality puts so much emphasis on the power of money in order to compensate for the bankruptcy of his soul.. A "BOY" with MONEY is no match against a MAN on a MISSION. A dude with a "boy's" mentality always ruins an apology with an excuse.. A dude with a "Boy's" mentality thinks that Sex is the answer to every problem in a relationship. Sadly, over the years many POPULAR YOUNG PLAYERS have morphed into LONELY OLD MEN..